The shift from transactional to familial is huge. Theidea that longevity equals influence at the parish level isn't talked about enough but it's super practical. I've seen similar patterns in community organizing, where people who show up consistently end up shaping things by default. The tension between 'better parish across town' and commitment to home feels especially relevant now when church hopping is pretty common.
I love this, and I agree, but as a third culture kid, I have a few questions and I'd love to hear your thoughts. I've lived in 3 countries so far, and have received my sacraments of initiation and reconciliation across 3 parishes. I think the experience of a TCK means we are constantly seeking out that sense of family in every parish we join, and for reasons beyond our control we end up moving every few years which makes this more challenging. I always want to give my best and my all to foster community in the parish I attend, but sometimes it can feel like I'm stepping on the toes of an already established community. What are your thoughts on what people in similar positions can do? Thanks!
The shift from transactional to familial is huge. Theidea that longevity equals influence at the parish level isn't talked about enough but it's super practical. I've seen similar patterns in community organizing, where people who show up consistently end up shaping things by default. The tension between 'better parish across town' and commitment to home feels especially relevant now when church hopping is pretty common.
I love this, and I agree, but as a third culture kid, I have a few questions and I'd love to hear your thoughts. I've lived in 3 countries so far, and have received my sacraments of initiation and reconciliation across 3 parishes. I think the experience of a TCK means we are constantly seeking out that sense of family in every parish we join, and for reasons beyond our control we end up moving every few years which makes this more challenging. I always want to give my best and my all to foster community in the parish I attend, but sometimes it can feel like I'm stepping on the toes of an already established community. What are your thoughts on what people in similar positions can do? Thanks!
Home is the right analogy. A home and a parish need leadership, hospitality, and justice. Love wouldn't be a bad idea, too.